Last time I mentioned going-out-on-the-town. I’m not talking about taking your precious to the local family restaurant for the nightly special…I’m talking about letting your precious know how precious they are by the way you dress, the way you walk, talk, and how you treat them in general. For me, dressing up makes me feel [...]
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Not Just Playin’ Dress Up
Posted: January 16, 2011 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Absolute Love, “I do”, Beauty, Beauty is only skin deep, Bedroom, Brands, Bride, Bridegroom, Casual Sex, Celebrate, Celebration, Cemetery, Cherish, Child, Children, Choice, Choose, Climax, Clothes, Clothing, Coitus, Commando, Communication, Creative, Creativity, Curl-Your-Toes-Sex, Dance, Dancing, Doggy Style, Dressed, Dresses, Drinking, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Fall in Love, Family, Fantasy, Flower, Flowers, Fly a kite, Fruit of the Loom, Fun, Going Down, Hair, Happy, High Heels, Hum-Drum, Husband, In sickness and in health, Intimacy, Intimate, Jewelry, Journey, Journeys, Kiss, Kisses, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Love, Love Story, Lovers, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/o sexual touch), Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/sexual touch), Luv Lang: Quality Time, Making Love, Marriage, Mate, Men's, Money, Music, Naked, Nakedness, Needs, One Ring, Open Communication, Panties, Passion, Perfume, Personal Experience, Photography, Physical, Picnic, Poetry, Relationships, Respect, Ritual, Romance, Sex, Sexuality, Sexy, Shopping, Smile, Song of Songs, Soup kitchen, Stimulation, Stockings, Style, Sunday, Super-Fine, The More I Seek You, Till death do us part, Treasure, True Intimacy, True Love, Uncategorized, Unconditional Love, Undergarment, Underwear, Value, Wedding, Wholehearted Love, Wife, Yowza
New times…New Year…new you!
Posted: January 15, 2011 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Absolute Love, “I do”, Beauty, Beauty is only skin deep, Bedroom, Bride, Bridegroom, Casual Sex, Celebrate, Celebration, Cemetery, Cherish, Child, Children, Choice, Choose, Climax, Clothes, Clothing, Coitus, Communication, Creative, Creativity, Curl-Your-Toes-Sex, Dance, Dancing, Doggy Style, Dressed, Dresses, Drinking, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Fall in Love, Family, Fantasy, Fashion, Flower, Flowers, Fly a kite, Fruit of the Loom, Fun, Going Down, Hair, Happy, High Heels, High-heeled footwear, Homelessness, Hum-Drum, Husband, In sickness and in health, Intimacy, Intimate, Jewelry, Journey, Journeys, Kiss, Kisses, Kite, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Love, Love Story, Lovers, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/o sexual touch), Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/sexual touch), Luv Lang: Quality Time, Making Love, Marriage, Mate, Money, Music, Naked, Nakedness, Needs, New Year, Open Communication, Panties, Passion, Perfume, Personal Experience, Photography, Physical, Picnic, Plans, Poetry, Recreation, Relationships, Respect, Ritual, Romance, Sex, Sexuality, Sexy, Shoe, Smile, Song of Songs, Soup kitchen, Stimulation, Stockings, Style, Sunday, Super-Fine, Thanksgiving, The More I Seek You, Till death do us part, Treasure, True Intimacy, True Love, Tweety, Tweety Bird, Uncategorized, Unconditional Love, Underwear, Value, Wedding, Wholehearted Love, Wife
That’s right a new time is here (if you haven’t heard). Can you think of a better time to do something new…new with your sweetums…new in general??? I’m not talking about buying a new pillow or swapping out the sheets. I’m talking about making a time for you and your sweetie to experience a “new…” [...]
Oneness
Posted: January 9, 2011 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Absolute Love, Ashes, “I do”, Balance, Beauty, Beauty is only skin deep, Bedroom, Believe, Better than thou, Bible, Blind Eye, Breakup, Bride, Bridegroom, Broken, Brokenness, Candy, Cherish, Children, Chocolate, Choice, Choose, Closeness, Coitus, Comfort, Communication, Communion, Compassion, Dance, Dancing, Dating, Death, Devotion, Dirty Laundry, Disciple, Domination, Dying, E5, Education and Enrichment, Emotional, Ephesians 5, Eternity, Everlasting Love, Experiences, Fall in Love, Family, Family and Relationships, Forgetfulness, Forgive and Forget, Forgiveness, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Future, Games, Gentle, God, God’s Love, Grace, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Heartache, His yoke is easy and His burden is light, Holier than thou, Honeymoon, Hope, Housework, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Humble, Humbled, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, In sickness and in health, Intimacy, Intimate, Intimate relationship, Jesus, Kisses, Kissing, Labor, Labor of Love, Legalism, Letting Go, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Love, Love Story, Lover of my soul, Lover of our soul, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Gifts, Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/sexual touch) Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/o sexual touch) Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Making Love, Male ego, Marriage, Mate, Mental, Mental health, Mutuality, Offenses, Oneness, Open Communication, Pardon, Personal Experience, Physical, Pure Love, Purpose, Pursuer of my soul, Pursuer of our soul, Re-Education, Reconciliation, Reformation, Relationships, Religion, Repent, Repented, Resilience, Respect, Romance, Sacrifice, Saved, Saving, Service, Serving, Seventy Times Seven, Sex, Sex & Religion, Sexual intercourse, Sexuality, Sexy, Spanking, Spankings, Teachability, The Mighty God, The More I Seek You, Till death do us part, Treasure, True Intimacy, True Love, Truth, Uncategorized, Unconditional Love, Undeserved, Valentine, Valentine’s Day, Value, Village People, Vulnerable, Wedding, Wholehearted Love, Wife, YMCA
I’ve been working on a new project, a game for married couples only. Encouraging oneness, or closeness, it explores relational as well as sexual issues.
Intimacy: Thrillers
Posted: January 7, 2011 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Absolute Love, Ashes, “I do”, Balance, Beauty, Beauty is only skin deep, Bedroom, Believe, Better than thou, Bible, Blind Eye, Breakup, Bride, Bridegroom, Broken, Brokenness, Cherish, Children, Choice, Choose, Closeness, Coitus, Comfort, Communication, Communion, Compassion, Counseling Services, Dance, Dancing, Death, Devotion, Dirty Laundry, Disciple, Domination, Dying, E5, Education and Enrichment, Emotional, Ephesians 5, Eternity, Everlasting Love, Experiences, Fall in Love, Family, Forgetfulness, Forgive and Forget, Forgiveness, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Future, Gentle, God, God’s Love, Grace, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Heartache, His yoke is easy and His burden is light, Holier than thou, Hope, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Humble, Humbled, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, In sickness and in health, Intimacy, Intimate, Intimate relationship, Jesus, Labor, Labor of Love, Legalism, Letting Go, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Love, Love Story, Lover of my soul, Lover of our soul, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Gifts, Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/sexual touch) Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/o exual touch) Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Making Love, Male ego, Marriage, Mate, Mental, Mental health, Mutuality, Offenses, Open Communication, Pardon, Personal Experience, Physical, Pure Love, Purpose, Pursuer of my soul, Pursuer of our soul, Re-Education, Reconciliation, Reformation, Relationships, Religion, Repent, Repented, Resilience, Respect, Romance, Sacrifice, Saved, Saving, Service, Serving, Seventy Times Seven, Sex, Sex & Religion, Sexuality, Teachability, The Mighty God, The More I Seek You, Till death do us part, Treasure, True Intimacy, True Love, Truth, Uncategorized, Unconditional Love, Undeserved, Value, Vulnerable, Wedding, Wholehearted Love, Wife
We are all going in one direction or another. Oftentimes our responsibilities distract or even overthrow our intimate efforts. Are you killing or thrilling your relationship?
Intimacy: Killers
Posted: January 5, 2011 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Absolute Love, Advice, Ashes, “I do”, Balance, Beauty, Beauty is only skin deep, Bedroom, Believe, Better than thou, Bible, Blind Eye, Breakup, Bride, Bridegroom, Broken, Brokenness, Cherish, Children, Choice, Choose, Closeness, Coitus, Comfort, Communication, Communion, Compassion, Dance, Dancing, Death, Devotion, Dirty Laundry, Disciple, Domination, Dying, E5, Education and Enrichment, Emotional, Ephesians 5, Eternity, Everlasting Love, Experiences, Fall in Love, Family, Forgetfulness, Forgive and Forget, Forgiveness, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Future, Gentle, God, God’s Love, Grace, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Heartache, His yoke is easy and His burden is light, Holier than thou, Home, Hope, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Humble, Humbled, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, In sickness and in health, Intimacy, Intimate, Intimate relationship, Jesus, Labor, Labor of Love, Legalism, Letting Go, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Love, Love Story, Lover of my soul, Lover of our soul, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Gifts, Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/sexual touch) Luv Lang: Physical Touch (w/o exual touch) Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Making Love, Male ego, Marriage, Mate, Mental, Mental health, Mutuality, Offenses, Open Communication, Pardon, Personal Experience, Physical, Pure Love, Purpose, Pursuer of my soul, Pursuer of our soul, Re-Education, Reconciliation, Reformation, Relationships, Religion, Repent, Repented, Resilience, Respect, Romance, Sacrifice, Saved, Saving, Service, Serving, Seventy Times Seven, Sex, Sex & Religion, Sexuality, Teachability, Television, The Mighty God, The More I Seek You, Till death do us part, Treasure, True Intimacy, True Love, Truth, Uncategorized, Unconditional Love, Undeserved, Value, Vulnerable, Wedding, Wholehearted Love, Wife
If your child had been attacked and their throat was seized by a Pit Bull, what would you do…and when? Just like that, we battle relational Pit Bull. Often, unlike a Pit Bull, these lethal jaws kill unaware. See here what is poised, ready to jugulate your relationship…maybe, just maybe, those jaws are already on your relational neck.
Time well spent
Posted: October 22, 2010 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Bride, Bridegroom, Camping, Cherish, Child, Children, Closeness, Co-Workers, Coffee, Communication, Current events, Devotion, Education, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Extracurricular activity, Family, Father, Fighting, Fights, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Fun, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Hunting, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, Illustration, Intimacy, Journey, Journeys, Joy, Labor of Love, Leadership, Lies, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Logic, Love, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Marriage, Mate, Mother, Needs, No Pain No Gain, Offenses, Open Communication, Parent, Peers, People, Personal Beliefs, Personal Experience, Prayer, Relationships, Romance, Safe Zone, Safety, Service, Serving, Sin, Story, Teacher, Television, Treasure, Truth, Uncategorized, Value, Wife, Wives, Women
How do you…make sure…to spend time with your significant counterpart, whether it’s a child, a parent, a spouse, or even a grandparent?
Love isn’t love unless it’s seen
Posted: October 21, 2010 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Arts, Bride, Bridegroom, Camping, Cherish, Child, Children, Closeness, Co-Workers, Coffee, Communication, Current events, Devotion, Education, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Family, Father, Fighting, Fights, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Fun, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Hunting, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, Illustration, Intimacy, Journey, Journeys, Joy, Labor of Love, Leadership, Lies, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Logic, Love, Lovers, Loving (TV series), Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Marriage, Mate, Mother, Needs, No Pain No Gain, Offenses, Online Writing, Open Communication, Peers, Personal Beliefs, Personal Experience, Prayer, Relationships, Religion and Spirituality, Romance, Safe Zone, Safety, Service, Serving, Shopping, Sin, Story, Teacher, Treasure, Truth, Uncategorized, Value, Wife
Does your family know that you love them…do they really? How do you know they know?
Patience: A Virtue
Posted: October 20, 2010 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Bride, Bridegroom, Camping, Cherish, Child, Children, Children Youth and Family, Closeness, Co-Workers, Coffee, Communication, Current events, Devotion, Education, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Family, Father, Fighting, Fights, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Fun, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Home, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Hunting, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, Illustration, Intimacy, Journey, Journeys, Joy, Labor of Love, Leadership, Lies, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Logic, Love, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Marriage, Mate, Mother, Mothers, Needs, No Pain No Gain, Offenses, Open Communication, Parenting, Patience, Peers, People, Personal Beliefs, Personal Experience, Prayer, Relationship, Relationships, Romance, Safe Zone, Safety, Service, Serving, Sin, Story, Teacher, Treasure, Truth, Uncategorized, Value, Wife
A prayer prayed in impatience: “GOD … I NEED MORE PATIENCE!!!”
Be what you want them to be
Posted: October 19, 2010 in UncategorizedTags: A three-strand cord, Bride, Bridegroom, Camping, Cherish, Child, Children, Closeness, Co-Workers, Coffee, Communication, Current events, Devotion, Education, Enjoy Life, Experiences, Family, Father, Fighting, Fights, Friend, Friends, Fulfillment, Fun, Happy, Harmony, Health, Heart, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Hunting, Hurt, Hurts, Husband, Illustration, Intimacy, Journey, Journeys, Joy, Labor of Love, Leadership, Lies, Life, Lifestyle, Listen, Listening, Live, Living, Logic, Love, Lovers, Loyalty, Luv Lang: Acts of Service, Luv Lang: Quality Time, Luv Lang: Words of Affirmation, Marriage, Marriage Bed, Mate, Mother, Needs, No Pain No Gain, Offenses, Open Communication, Peers, People, Personal Beliefs, Personal Experience, Philosophy, Philosophy of Logic, Prayer, Recreation, Relationships, Romance, Safe Zone, Safety, Service, Serving, Sin, Story, Teacher, Treasure, Truth, Truth Definitions, Truth Sojourner, Uncategorized, United States, Value, Wife
What do others see when they see you?
Asker or Guesser: Which Are You? #6
Posted: October 15, 2010 in UncategorizedTags: Co-Workers, Communication, Dancing, Friends, Gentle, Harmony, Hope, Human, Human Nature, Humanity, Humankind, Hurts, Husband, Illustration, Journey, Life, Lifestyle, Listening, Living, Lovers, Marriage, Mate, Offenses, Open Communication, Quotes, Re-Education, Relationships, Respect, Story, Strength, Uncategorized, Victimized, Vulnerable, Wife
Here’s the thing, you are allowed to say no to someone without offering an explanation. It’s not rude. Explanations leave an open door for further conversation. Mandel says to say “No, I’m afraid that won’t be possible.” Practice saying that and then use it! There was a little poll that the article had, it had [...]