1980's Boy George
If you’ve followed from the beginning of this series through to this point, I want to offer you a challenge. Here’s what I’d like you to do…please…for me? Please? I want you to (you, need you to) talk with your sweetie; communicate with them on a sub-atomic level. In a conversation (NOT when emotions are churning) invite them to share with you the top ten thing or words that hurts their feelings before you guys met, things that they’d rather you not use or ever do.
You might want to think about it ahead of time, about the things that hurt you from your past. Then…if they ask you, you’ll be ready to express your heart and let them know the things that others have done in your past to hurt you.
I know this is a big thing to ask. But you can do it … the quality of your marriage depends on it.
Until later . . .
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